When I was working in this small company, I always encountered
difficult situations at work. Since I knew the president of the company before
entering the company, he offered me a job and I accepted the offer. So I did
not have an interview. He put me in the small office with an older woman who
was my manager. There were always only two of us in the office most of the
time. People thought I was lucky because I got the job easily. The other people
had to have an interview to enter the company, the president never treated me
as any different after starting working. I was glad he treated all company members
equally, but the manager did not like the fact that I entered the company
because I knew the president for a long time. I was responsible, learned things
very quickly, and did the tasks efficiently. However, she always judged me and
complained I did not work hard. When I had family emergency or got sick, and
was not able to go to work, she was very angry and thought I lied to her. I
figured it out later but she reported her complaints to the president all the
time. I felt very uncomfortable being in the
same office with her and got very nervous to talk to her as well. Then, another
company member realized something was going on between her and I, she helped me
to work at a different office where I had to learn completely different tasks
from my previous work. In fact, I did not have many things to do at the new
office. I got bored and quit this job shortly after.
I think this could have been avoided if….
·
I had an interview, and talked with the
manager before I started working with her, she may have known my personality or
integrity more, and could have improved performance.
·
the company had solid management plans
to train employees. Since it was a new and very small company, the company did
not have many experiences and did not know how to develop the quality
workforces.
· we both could have communicated better and got along with eachother because
there were only two of us worked together for one specific task. There was a
lack of socialization between my manager and I.
It seems a better communication between you and the manager could improve the situation, but it sounds the manager was not motivated or inclined to improve the relationship between you two.The only solution that seems reasonable to me is for your manager's superior, the person who really hired you to interfere and possibly mediate the growing conflict. All the best in your future career!
ReplyDeleteSorry about the horrible experience with your manager. It seems to me that your manager was purposely being difficult and didn't bother putting any effort to getting to know you. I think that it would be a good idea for the company to get rid of this type of manager if he/she treats employees this way. A bad manager like this could make the company lose valuable employees.
ReplyDeleteI highly agree with your viewing on communication between one another. It is very difficult to concur tasks, let alone get through the day without substantial communication between individuals. Definitely better off to leave that negative working environment.
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